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Should I Teach My Dog To Play Tug?

Playing tug with a dog using a rope toy.

Playing tug can be a great way to connect with your dog and build a strong relationship. It can be super FUN, but it has a lot of other great benefits such as teaching your dog impulse control and rewarding a recall. It can also be a great way to get your dog’s attention and create a positive association in the environment. So, the overwhelming answer is YES!

Playing tug can be more effective if you have knowledge of how your dog likes to play, and some other handy tips to make it successful. Here are some things to consider when playing tug with your dog.

Predatory Action Sequence (PAS)

Dogs are (or were once!) predators who hunt, and hunting is made up of a predatory action sequence:

  • Scent
  • Eye
  • Stalk
  • Chase
  • Grab bite
  • Kill bite
  • Dissect
  • Consume

It’s important to consider your dog’s breed/s to see how they may like to play. For example, a border collie will enjoy the eye, stalk and chase part of the PAS. 

Type of toy

Playing tug with a soft fleece, cotton or wool toy is gentler on their teeth.

Most dogs prefer soft material to hold onto. Rough or abrasive materials such as rope can hurt your dog’s mouth (especially teething puppies) and they may not want to engage in a game with you. Try fleece, cotton, or fake/real wool.

Make sure the toy has a bit of length to it; otherwise, it will be hard to keep your hand away from your dog’s mouth. Toys on poles (flirt poles) can be a fun provided they are used correctly (ask us how!).

Building value in tug toys

Keep some toys away from your dog in a drawer or out of reach so they can’t get to them. Your dog can have toys they have free access to, but the ones you play with keep in a secret spot. This way, the toy holds greater value for your dog once you bring it out to play.

How to introduce play

Thinking of the PAS, start by bringing out the toy, and showing it to your dog, but make a big deal of it – so hide it and move around with it – perhaps saying ‘what’s this?!” You are trying to engage the PAS by scent and eye first. 

Then, get the toy to move! Wiggle it on the ground, move it around to engage the ‘stalk’ and ‘chase’ part. Try being side on to your dog and low down (perhaps kneel). Avoid standing over your dog as they may not want to approach to take the toy.


Once your dog has started to enjoy toy play, as with any game, there needs to be some rules.  Rules can teach your dog the impulse control that many dogs need.

Teach “Take”

Because you have built such a high value in your toy, some dogs will grab onto it as soon as they see it, even if you aren’t ready. To teach impulse control, (in other words wait until I’m ready); simply introduce a verbal cue to start the game such as “take” or “get it”. Introduce the word at the same time your dog begins to engage in a game, and then as they get better at it, just delay the time until you say the cue. If your dog grabs the tug before you’re ready, just ask them for it back (see give below) and start again. You may find it useful to teach your dog a ‘wait’ in these situations too.

Teach “Give/Swap”

To get the tug toy back off your dog, you will need to teach a reliable give cue. To do this, once your dog has the tug toy in their mouth, freeze the toy (stop moving it) and offer a high value treat (chicken, beef etc.) right on their nose to trade. To take the treat your dog needs to let go of the toy. Once they do, give them the treat and lots of praise. When they do this well, put a verbal cue on the behaviour, such as ‘give’. If your dog won’t give the toy up for a treat, try a different type of food or another toy.

No teeth on skin

No teeth on skin, no matter how accidental should be allowed. The aim of toy play is to have a good time with your dog, it shouldn’t end in blood! If your dog mistakes you for the toy, simply end the game (drop the toy) and walk away. There is no need to shout ‘no’ or grab your dog. This will only make you seem unpredictable. Your dog may run around with the toy in glee, but soon realise that it isn’t any fun without you. Remember you have built this toy up to be special, so try again after a few minutes.

Control arousal levels

If you have the type of dog who really gets into toy play in a big way, it is more effective to have short games than to play a 5-minute game that ends in your dog getting out of control and jumping all over you and mouthing you. Keep games to 10 – 20 seconds long, ask for a give (reward!), ask your dog for a sit (reward!), then start another game. By interrupting the game, you can control your dog’s arousal levels more effectively.

Should I let my dog win?

YES! Absolutely. For some dogs it’s the best part. To encourage your dog to bring you the toy back, once your dog has the toy, back away, kneel and turn on your side and encourage them to bring it back to play again. Avoid chasing your dog (unless that’s the game they like!) or moving into their space. Try using 2 toys, as you play with one toy, let go and start moving another toy around. Your dog will learn to drop the toy they have and come and play with the more exciting one 😊


Be careful with puppies and young dogs and avoid repetitive games such as fetch and sudden movements. 

When playing tug games, move the toy gently from side to side and try to mimic a dog when you tug. Avoid spins, shakes, jerks or bouncing on the end of the toy. Doing so just adds an unnecessary risk of injury. The dog’s neck is built to have power from side to side, not up and down. 

If your dog is injured or recovering from injury, please see your vet or rehabilitation specialist for advice on toy play.

Have fun with your dog!

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